Are you tired of conflict, not getting your needs met, and feeling stressed out in your relationship? Are you feeling lost and alone and unsure how to make it better? It's time to do something about it.
JULIE GILLASPIE
Relationship & Love Coach
Get the 5 Foundations of Relationship Transformation
Create a fulfilling and empowering relationship where you feel seen, understood and valued.
Improve the quality of your relationships and gain more confidence, more choices, and more personal power in the process. It is possible...and I can show you how!

Do you want a strong and fulfilling relationship? I facilitate powerful relationship creation and transformation. I help you get empowered to create a relationship that is a source of energy, strength and renewal that ultimately infuses the other areas of your life.
Hi, I’m Julie.
I’m a Relationship Empowerment Specialist – an emotional translator, teacher and coach. My clients range from singles who want a sustainable long term relationship to individuals who feel disconnected from their partners to couples who are dealing with conflict, frustration, or lack of trust. I help each person and couple I coach to lay a solid foundation upon which they can build their ultimate relationship vision.
So ask yourself right now if you truly feel relaxed, empowered and fulfilled in your relationship? If you are not a resounding YES - if you are tired of feeling stressed out or undervalued in your relationship - it’s time to do something about it.
Transform your relationship from a source of stress into a source of strength. Because, let’s face it, having deep and meaningful relationships is the most essential key to living a long and fulfilling life (re: 75 year Harvard Study).
Don’t wait until you are looking back, wishing you lived and loved more fully...
Let’s Connect.
Here's what my Clients are Saying....
I worked with Julie during a time of transition. I found that my time with Julie covered so much, and that her perception was very attuned to my psyche and my inner growth. The conversations flowed naturally and I felt myself feeling more free and solid as a result. The work invited a growing edge to emerge and inspired me to ask for what I want moving forward.
Nina - Bellingen, Australia
Separated Co-parenting Relationship
Julie has been instrumental in guiding me to develop relationship skills to create the confidence in standing up for an effective, loving, growth focused relationship. By challenging me to stick to what I say I want and pushing me to get clearer on what I want, I have been able to unlock new possibilities.
Taylor - Seattle, WA
Single/Dating - Post 5 year Committed Relationship
"We contacted Julie for coaching after having tried many different therapists over the course of several years. We needed help with serious conflict we weren’t able to work through on our own. We both longed for a more loving, connected and respectful relationship. With Julie's gentle guidance, her intuition, and her ability to hold space for whatever was arising for each of us, she helped create a safe space for both of us to process deep pain, judgments of each other and so much damn resentment - it’s quite amazing to be on the other side of it now. Thank you dear Julie. We hold so much gratitude in our hearts for all the help we received from you."
Karen and Patrick Chonzena - Washington
Very happily together, married/blended family
Julie is an emotional excavator. She helped me reach into my normally closed off emotions and actually realize that I really do care about things that I was just taking for granted. She held space for me to be vulnerable, which made it less scary to look deeper within myself, be okay with what I found there, and learn from it.
Chris - New York
Navigating the waters of a stormy 20-year marriage
Cecilia & Mark - Toronto, Ontario - Canada
Together 4 years & Recently Married
If you are in a couple, and you are looking for support, and especially if you are having issues figuring out how to resolve fights...if you are getting stuck in the same fight over and over again...have that fight in front of Julie.
It's just helped our relationship tremendously going forward. It's not like we don't ever fight now, but now we have the tools to be able to see each other, and to really connect in a caring, loving way.
It's just helped our relationship tremendously going forward. It's not like we don't ever fight now, but now we have the tools to be able to see each other, and to really connect in a caring, loving way.
Cecilia & Mark - Toronto, Ontario - Canada
Together 4 years & Recently Married
Rebecca - Newburgh, NY
Happy in a New Partnership
Julie helped me learn how to tune into myself and hear my inner voice which helped me develop self trust. She modeled for me how to set healthy boundaries and encouraged me to voice my opinions. Now I am in a new relationship with a very healthy and stable individual and I was able to attract that into my life because the coaching with Julie helped me create that relationship with myself. I highly recommend Julie to anyone who is looking for support in the area of love and relationships. She was a savior in my life.
Gary and Becky - TX
Married nearly 50 years
"I am so thankful that my wife found Julie and we could do relationship coaching because it's helped me tremendously to look inside myself, to value my wife more, and the communication skills that she offers are fantastic. We needed help with communication and Julie gave us the tools that we needed. It has just opened up a way to talk about things in a way we weren't able to before. Julie has knowledge, professionalism and patience and helped me change my whole life."
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